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I started practicing Aikido years ago. When I walked onto the mat, I felt awkward and confused. I was horrible. Bad. Terrible. Nothing ended up in the right place. I couldn't fall, roll, turn, attack or keep my balance. My techniques resembled a bad stop motion film with strobe effects.

In Aikido, all of your instinctive reactions are wrong. It takes a lot of practice to overcome the basic instincts of avoiding punches and kicks, instead stepping into them. Instead of a strong hold being a loss, it becomes an opportunity to introduce your attacker to the ground, suddenly.

An internet business is much the same. Your first product is probably going to be horrible. Let's just be honest here. It will squeak and whine and you'll say too little in some parts and too much in others. Your first sales page will most likely be the same. Benefits instead of features? Not likely in a first draft! Your first posts will be weak and your first articles probably won't be all that and a bag of chips either. You'll struggle for traffic and sales will be dismal.

But it's important you do them AND you release them. What you're looking for at this time is feedback. It's similar to the time I was performing a technique (poorly) and my partner thought I should have been doing it better. So she (all 5' 90lbs of her) countered and introduced me to the mat, sharply. In an online business: Did the sales page convert? Where is the traffic coming from? How can I get more? Am I getting a lot of returns? What could I have done better? Each time did I survive and learn my lesson? Yes. Have I had similar lessons since then? Of course, both in Aikido and in my online business. Improvement is the key. Focus on getting better, not how terrible you are today.

Here's 3 reasons why being bad at something is good:

1. For the ideas. Everything you have problems doing is a potential product/blog post/article - once you find an answer. Don't understand what FTP is? There's a blog post. Did you find a nifty combo of techniques for bringing traffic to your site? There's an e-book. Can't find a plugin to display a collapsible list of pages in WordPress - develop the software to do it. My suggestion: If you're having problems with something - WRITE IT DOWN! Put it in a text document specifically for product ideas or write it in your personal journal. I personally keep a list of product ideas in a Writeboard in Basecamp.

2. You get better at it by doing. Everyone was once a beginner. Leonardo Da Vinci probably once drew in stick figures but he went on to paint the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel. You don't get better my reading, you get better by practicing. My suggestion: Consider everything between now and when you consider yourself a master to be nothing more than practice. Practice, practice, practice and make it fun!

3. It's fun. Perhaps it's just me, but I find learning fun. I've learned you can't learn about things your already a master of, so if you're learning, you're going to be doing it badly. There isn't a single person who is good at everything. So make learning fun. My suggestion: Kids find most everything interesting. Adopt a child like attitude towards all the tasks you're faced with. When you learn something let out a big AHA! Then do a little dance.

So get out there and be horrible at something. If you keep at it, in a couple of months/years, you'll actually be good at it. That's how the masters got to be masters.